Complain, complain, complain: that's all you do lately. Problem is, it's so comfortable and normal, you don't even think twice about all that griping. But you should. It's creating a definite black cloud in your life. Instead, learn to turn those negative comments around: insert an empowering word, thought or question. Transform 'i hate doing this,' into 'what will my discomfort teach me? ' once you establish a new point of view, you'll hit the road of progress.